Just yet another day have passed and only now do I have slight idea what to write at the moment. This came across after watching a Korean drama. I have been pondering about this matter for a few days. It is not perfect yet as an idea but I guess its better to write something here than to leave it empty....
To love and to be loved. How many of us feels that we have love someone and feel love or affection being given by others? I guess I will start with being loved. Being loved is when others are around us and they care for us. Willing to spend time and to hear to our ups and downs at all times. I know many may call themselves as friends but among those thousands of friends who sticks to you the most... that is your true friend...and that is the person who is loving you. Loving as in caring for you. Caring is not equal to bugging... The person who loves you is a person who knows when to show concern and yet still make space for your own privacy. Have anyone in mind?
Now to the second part... to love. Saying the words of love is not as difficult to express your love. No doubt, expressing but not saying is no good either. But saying without actions are even worse..at least that is what I think. To love someone is to want to be with them at all cost.. and to protect them. Eventhough it you end up hurting yourself. Example, if you truly love a person, but he or she don't love you back...if you truly love that person..it is either you try your best to get her to return your feelings or you let her/him go to the person who owns their heart. A heart can never be traded with money, jewellery, etc. Think bout it.If you can trade your feelings for money... many might have done it. yes, marriage due to status and wealth is something common today but if they do not handle themselves well... either they crumble and do something wrong or end up being empty...numb towards their own feelings...
To love someone is the willingness to see pass through your own desires to fulfill others need. despite our own selfishness and wanting to catch our own dream.. if you truly love something, someone.. you might end up letting go of your dreams... sometimes you will try to do everything you can just to get that particular to smile again.. Even if it means hurting your own pride and tarnishing your own reputation.. sounds painful now... but wait till you find the right person.
But there is danger too... loving a person too much might blind you from the coming reality..don't forget including those who likes taking advantage on others. making a fool of others are some people's specialties... evil but that is reality... Hurting others is fun to some... some... not all...
Heartbreaks are normal...Being hurt is normal...pain is part of life which you must learn to embrace... d more you experinece the more you know about life... the better you handle unexpected things which occurs around you... A wound might heal but the scar will remind us of the past... both pain and joy... (hmm, doubt joy brings scar though..but well... =P) so, never give up on life...and never give up on finding those who needs your love nor stop searching for those who will love you in return... there is always enough love for all of us in this world.. if only you tried to look for it...
